April is Sexual Assault Awareness Month. This year’s theme, “Together we Act, United we Change,” highlights the importance of working together to prevent and address sexual assault, harassment, and abuse.
Sexual violence is an umbrella term that encompasses:
Rape or sexual assault
Sexual harassment
Sexual abuse
Unwanted sexual contact or touching
Sexual exploitation and trafficking
Exposing one’s genitals or naked body to another without consent
Non-consensual image sharing and/or coercion (including AI-generated content)
Words and actions of a sexual nature against a person's will and without their consent.
Trust Your Instincts
Always listen to that little voice telling you that something is off. Pay attention to your intuition; it is usually right. If someone is approaching you and you feel uncomfortable, remember that you have no duty to be polite. Tell them to stop and move away from you. Keep your distance and call for help. It is far better to overreact to a situation than to put yourself in danger because you didn’t want to be rude. The book The Gift of Fear is a great resource in this space.
Secure Your Drink and Surroundings
Predators also use charm to lower your defenses and get you alone, often using tactics designed to lower your defenses (“Can I come in? I won’t stay long, I promise”). Until you really know someone, don’t let them into your personal space, whether your home or the direct space around you.
Another warning sign is someone trying to get you inebriated, waiting till you are drunk and vulnerable to assault you. Be cautious of your drink, as it takes almost no time to have it spiked. If you leave your drink unattended, get a new one. Bartenders will usually be happy to put it behind the bar and watch it for you, but only do this if you know and trust them.
Use the Buddy System
Remember STAN – Stay Together All Night. Have friends with you on a night out and promise to stay with each other all night. Come together, leave together.
Get Support
Immediate Help (24/7 Hotlines)
RAINN (Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network)
National Sexual Assault Hotline (via RAINN)
The Trevor Project (LGBTQ+ Youth)
Hotline: 1-866-488-7386
Text: "START" to 678-678
Medical & Legal Support
Find a Local Sexual Assault Nurse Examiner (SANE)
National Center for Victims of Crime
Long-Term Support & Counseling
Psychology Today Therapist Directory
NAMI (National Alliance on Mental Illness)
Marginalized Communities
FORGE (Transgender Survivors)
Asian Pacific Institute on Gender-Based Violence
Black Women’s Blueprint
Online Support & Education
Pandora’s Project
Me Too Movement
Legal Rights & Reporting
National Network to End Domestic Violence (NNEDV)
Know Your IX (Campus Sexual Assault)
Self-Care & Healing
Gift from Within (PTSD Resources)
~ Charlie Taylor
charlie@dprepsafety.com